We are woven of stories - the ones we tell about ourselves, the ones others tell of us, the ones that lurk in the shadows of our and others' minds that shape, often unconsciously, our beliefs, patterns of behavior, habits. We might, rightly, as my wise, challenging Jungian analyst showed me, develop a necessary supportive (or defensive) belief or habit with its accompanying story, wholly appropriate for its moment, yet as time progresses, it becomes at best a worn shell better discarded, at worst a self-defeating neurosis holding you bound. And what shifts these stories and their attendant possibilities, writing with us anew? The careful sifting of memory, the circles of care or neglect we live in, our conversations with others, the lowering or deepening of the circles of our awareness, the practice of trying on different frames, new versions of ourselves; and, of course, events! Tanya Shadrick's beautifully written memoir and manifesto explore many of these dimensions of the ...